-I really want to be home school because I suffer from anxity problems and I find myself beyond unconmfortable in a place with so many people. I've been getting so many ugy comments on my looks and what not. I know its stupid to listen to them but I can't help it. I'm not deaf. Besides I don't talk because of those problems mentioned above. I have pretty good grades considering I don't particiape orally.
I feel as if I could have much better grades if it weren't for being in a room with all those people. I feel as though it would be better to be homeschooled and not have to worry about how I look when I go to study and get ugly comments or laughs. I have suffered from depression for a while now. Not somthing that my mom thinks needs treatment. I don't tell her about all the bad moments I had to deal with. I hate it so much. Sometimes I come home, lock myself in the bathroom and just cry.
School should be about studying not about looks.
Please how can I convince them. They don't believe in home schooling and say they would have to pay teachers and I've been watching too many moviesyou need to forget the ugly comments none of the ones who're saying bad things are faultless. By being quiet you're encouraging them to notice that you're different you're not ugly just quiet this will make them call you names. You can overcome this ignore them you are a person with a special purpose in life. most things become clearer as we get older. Be brave you can get through this chin up.
Just simple go to your parents and tell them it is torturing for you to go to school so you want to enroll in online school. Tell them you have found a fully accredited recognized Online High School called Senford and you want to join Senford Hiigh School so that you can take online diploma test at home and pass to be a high school graduate. Their no is 281-973-5962 and web add is www.senfordhighschool.com
get expeled from school.... than they r left with no coice besides moving or paying alot of money for private school
Why do you not sit down with your mother and discuss this.......let her know how you feel and why you feel this way.
As for the 'home schooling' - it will NOT work unless your mother is comfortable doing this. If she is telling you she would have to 'pay' someone to home school you - then she is NOT comfortable doing this nor is she even interested in doing this. A child can only be home schooled if this is something the parent really wants to do.
Stay away from the movies and concentrate on your education.
I know how you feel, just today i had a bad day with my classmates. I can't stand the way the look at me and talk about me. I know at the end( what goes around come around). but it is hard to act like its nothing when deep down it hurt so much. I'm also trying to talk to my parents about homeschooling, first thing you do, get your mom in a good mood, and start talking about school, and you should tell her somethings that are going on. tell her how A LOT of college love homeschooling kids better then public schooling kids. and how it could give you time to do other things, sport. tell her how happy you would feel without those comments. try it. and good luck and hang in there.
Do your parents have the room,the time and the money to home school you? That is without paying for special tutors. Are they well enough educated in every subject to teach you? Even if they know enough about each subject are they able to teach?Teaching others is a skill not everyone has. Do they even want to spend 24/7 with you ? Can they afford to pay for expert tutors? From what you have said it doesn't sound as if they can or want to. Do they work?
Home schooling involves so much more than you staying at home every day ,it involves expense which they possibly can't afford not just on books and equipment but household expenses increase when there are people home all the time.
School is not just about study ,it is also about socialising ,learning how to cope with different people an d situations things you will not learn at home. School is about preparing you for the adult world . When you leave school and start work you will have to deal with your anxiety problems and school teaches you how to do this.
You will never convince your parents about home schooling because that is only the best alternative in a few cases and they obviously do not think it will be the best thing for them or you.
School should be about studying, unfortunately school has become about looks, what you wear, where you shop and socializing among other things. Homeschooling can be a good option for some people as long as you understand that it's not meant to hide from the world but to experience the world and get an education in a different way. I'm not sure what grade you're in but there are online homeschool options where you can work very independently and your parents would not have to be the main source of teaching. K12 is one and I think another is called Robinson method (?). But of course they do cost money. You can homeschool for free but it sounds like that would require more work than your mom is willing to put in. The bottom line is your parents do have to feel comfortable with it or comfortable enough that they're willing to let you try it out.
Homeschooling is no longer just for the ultra-religious, it's going more and more mainstream every year. Some states will let you learn online at home through the public schools with programs like K12 that I mentioned above. As for socialization:
1) Have you ever heard a teacher say "Miss Smith, we are NOT here to socialize." ?????
2) being locked in a building all day with a population exactly the same as you is not socialization--it's more like being caged at a zoo. Socialization is getting out in the world and dealing with all ages of people and learning by example from those older than you as well teaching those that are younger what you have learned about good manners, kindness, and interacting with the world. Trying to talk to a public school teenager is like talking to a wall as they can't carry on a proper conversation with anyone outside their very limited circle. Strike up a conversation with a homeschooler and it's a very different story.
3) Not everyone is comfortable in every situation. Some do well in groups, others do not. And that's okay. You need to put yourself into social situations that will build your confidence, not break it down. Try making some friends with similar interests or even similar anxieties so that you have some support.
4) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT Parents get busy and/or also don't want to see that their child may have "issues" and tend to write a lot of things off as teen angst or turn a blind eye hoping you'll "grow out of it." You really NEED to talk with your parents and be truthful about what's going on. I know it seems like they should know--you live with them and you're miserable after all!-- but again, busy schedules and *not wanting to see* that things aren't perfect can play a major role. You need to MAKE them see by having a mature conversation (without crying and yelling, etc) and let them know what's going on at school and gathering your homeschool information to include statistics about how well homeschoolers are doing in the world as well as curriculum options and even finding a homeschool support group in your area that will give you the opportunity for socialization that your parents think is so important. Use the library and the internet. Please let them know how worried you are about your anxiety and depression and point out that you are trying to help yourself but you need their help as well because they are the adults in your life who love you and are supposed to support you.
Remember not everyone is the same and we all have our own path to follow in life, which will hopefully end in the same happy place as an adult :-D
Let your beauty shine from within. People like that are rotten on the inside and use you to help them feel better about themselves. Good luck, friend.
From my understanding home schooling is expensive if a parent or relative is not the one at home teaching you for free. Also in some states the person teaching you must be certified to teach you. If your parents are not willing to make the effort it is probably because they don't understand what you are going through.
You have to sit down with your parents and ask them to help you figure this out and make a plan for your well being. Tell them everything, that one thing you hide can be what your parents need to be come more motivated to help you.
I had a best friend who had similar problems but her parents couldn't afford home schooling. At some point she realized a change of scenery and people would be a better option at the time and went online, and applied to a lot of different boarding schools with full scholarships and after a few months was accepted and went and lived away from everything. It had worked out well for her.
With all this aside, you don't need home schooling, you need to every time look at these people making comments about you and either ignore them or plain out tell them - I'm so sorry that you like making awful comments about other people, you must be so ugly on the inside.
That should get the ball rolling, even with depression you can still get around some of it, by finding ways to empower yourself.
i know wat u mean cus i was in that exact same situation and now i'm home ed.
but 2 b honest its really lonely and very boring most of the time.
what i'm saying is really consider being in school or learning from home
but if u still wanna b home ed just sit down during dinner and tell them why u should b home ed (they don't even have 2 b there 2 teach u there r plenty of website's that can help).
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